Sunday, September 30, 2012

More Ships


Little did I know what I started when I decided to take the kids to Navy Week. William is so into the ocean and all things "deep, deep, deep." So yesterday I decided to go with the obsession and visit the World War II submarine and the bulk freighter in the city harbor. The kids loved it! They especially loved the sub because they were allowed to try out the beds, tables, sinks (that fold up), and many gears. Their favorite was working the gun on the deck.




This is the bulk feighter.  It carried bulk goods like iron ore, coal, and grain from Duluth to Cleveland and back again.  It's actually larger than Noah's ark. 

Always Christmas

A few weeks ago, William made this Santa and hung it on our front door window.  It makes me smile every time I look at it.  In this house, it's always Christmas and sometimes winter.

Sunday, September 16, 2012

Explanations from the SGM Board

This past week the current SGM Board did us all the service of explaining their perspective and actions this past year, for which I am very grateful.  The responses match very consistently with the explanations communicated to us personally, but I'm so glad they've been published so all SGM church members can read them. 

Personally, I found the following sections most clarifying:

Regarding the way CJ and the SGM Leadership Team has related to CLC pastors (which in a previous blogpost this week the current board acknowledged have been in conflict) and members:

"These questions do not involve matters of sin or ethical violation—they are matters of judgment." (p.1)

They go on to say, "We also want to allow debatable secondary issues to distract us from our mission to plant and build local churches and to find a governance that pleases the Lord and seems good to as many of us as possible. As we have so many times in the past, let’s strive to allow grace and love to win the day."

And regarding CJ being re-instated as President:

"We do not think this is the time for a debate about who should lead our ministry. We have a major transition to make in our governance, and we believe that no other leader in our movement has the qualities that will effectively guide us through these changes." (p.5)


 

William's First Day of Class

Here's William entering MCS for his first day.  MCS is the school my dad taught at and my brothers and I attended K-12.  William's standing with Mrs. H, his art teacher and a longtime family friend.

There's a ninth grade Independent Studies girl who God provided on Day 1 to be William's special helper.  I will also be sitting in on music and gym class to help him learn the boundaries and to train the teachers and helpers how to relate to him.  This is new ground for us as MCS doesn't have inclusion experience, but they are all extremely loving, gracious, and accepting.  I am so grateful!

Lily's First Day of Class


We started school at home awhile ago now.  But the first week of September was both Lily and William's first day of class.  Lily is attending a preschool close to home called Fit by Five.  It's a national chain, though I hadn't heard of it before.  It's a "perceptual-motor based" preschool, which means they do a lot of gym-type activities working on endurance, coordination, and cooperation.  Lily's in the Pre-K+ class which is just two afternoons a week.  There are five kids and two teachers which is a real plus in my mind.  Lily loves it!  She often looks at the calendar and points out all the days she gets to go to school.

A Funeral to Remember

This seems to be a season of funerals.  Sobering, I must say.  I went to a funeral of a longtime friend's dad a few weeks ago, and it's been in my mind ever since. 

Funerals display people's character, both the person who died and their friends and family.  Sometimes it gets pretty yucky, but sometimes it's simply beautiful.

At this friend's dad's funeral, my friend's mom sang.  She sang a song she had written.  It wasn't about her husband or about her own life.  It was a song of worship to Jesus for His salvation.  And she sang it so joyfully.  It was such a striking picture; I can't get it out of my head. 

I can't sing, so I know I won't be singing any solos at Eric's funeral (which is hopefully many, many years away).  But I hope I will be able to worship like that in that moment.

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Playing Teacher

Lily explained to me this morning that she was playing school with her teddy.  She had him on her bed with some books.  Then later she made him sight words flashcards.  Not being too much of an over-achiever, she had to ask me how to spell the sight words.

Monday, September 3, 2012

Homeschooling with a Receptive Language Disorder

Sorry, regular readers.  This post is for the other moms out there googling educational info late at night.

William's speech has (yet again) really blossomed over the summer.  He's now making up his own sentences fairly often (maybe once every 1-3 days).  But when it comes to learning, we still need everything to be demonstrated.  We are at the beginning of the school year, but at this point we are having good success with:

-Sing, Spell, Read, and Write.  Actually, we don't really use the whole kit.  We are using the Grade 1A book for review of all the letter sounds and handwriting. At the same time, we are slowly working through the Kindergarten B book to learn how to blend sounds together.  I listened to the songs myself and then slowed them way down when I sing them with the kids.  I also changed some of the words in the short vowel song - egg to elephant, inchworm to igloo- to make it more clear and understandable to William.  William isn't into card games, so we haven't really used those.  And if we get to any of the readers before the end of the year, I'll be thrilled.

The best part about this program is the ferris wheel for the vowels.  We are going very slowly, taking weeks to do one lesson, but it is working.  For a kid with apraxia, saying all the short vowel sounds forward and back (a, e, i, o, u, u, o, i, e, a) is pretty impressive!

The handwriting in the first grade workbooks is a lot, but the style matches Handwriting Without Tears, and it provides the amount of practice that we really need.  We do it at the end of the day though, as it is laborious.  William really likes the cut and paste phonics that goes with it, so that helps offset the displeasure.

I'm going to supplement with the beginner BOB books for readers, and probably also Hooked on Phonics like we did last year.

-Essential Kindergarten B Singapore Math- A black and white but very clear basic math workbook.  I didn't get a teacher's manual, but use the suggestions at the bottom of the page as a starting point for lessons.  I like how it explains the concepts behind the math facts and how there's only a few problems on each page.

The book starts out with the concept of "one more," which William didn't seem to understand.  It seemed like the struggle was linguistic, not cognitive.  He couldn't seem to understand "more" to mean something different than "the stash in the cupboard."  (ie, I want more pretzels/cookies/cheerios.)  So we skipped that for now and are moving on to numbers 1-20 and place value.  As we do numbers, I've been trying to slowly and systematically introduce the idea of comparison that will hopefully lead us back to more and less.  We'll see.

I've been using joining blocks along with montessori small red and blue rods as our main manipulatives.  I have a set of cruisinaire rods, but I'm hesitant to use them as they introduce another level of memorization necessary to benefit from them (ie- The green stick is how many?  Is the pink stick ten??)  I also made a set of place value cards.

For Bible, we're going to study Exodus.  (Right now we're reviewing Genesis, and William's totally into Noah and his big boat.)

For life skills, we're working on dressing independently, making our bed, going to the bathroom and brushing our teeth independently, cleaning up after ourselves, and serving and clearing our food for breakfast and lunch.  As a mom, that's probably the most exciting subject for me! =)

For social studies, we are learning the Pledge of Allegiance, the rest of the words to America the Beautiful, our address and phone number, introducing maps, and (hopefully) doing a light overview of world cultures.

For science, my plan is to do topics related to our study of Exodus (rivers, crocodiles, fire, hail, etc).  We are also reviewing plants from last year.  Last week we did plant puzzles, picked the first green peppers from our pepper plant!, and started a potato root-growing experiment.  State standards suggest we talk about living/nonliving matter and natural/manmade matter.  Not sure how to do that yet.

For health we're going to do the food pyramid.  Did anyone know the food pyramid has changed again??  When I learned it, there were three levels with grains on the bottome, then fruits and veggies, the meat and dairy, and sweets at the tip top.  But now it has stripes going up.  Does anyone know anything about that?   Anyway, I hope to use painter's tape and tape a pyramid on the wall with the different sections (once I get them figured out), and let the kids tape play food in the right places.  We'll see.  We could really use lessons on healthy eating around here, so if anyone has any good kid-friendly ideas on this topic, feel free to share!

With all that regular education, it's hard to remember sometimes that the main thing we need to focus on is language.  But half of our IEP is language goals, so that helps.  My hope is to increase vocabulary through making posters, building shadow boxes and other models, watching movies, singing songs, and playing games.  The harder language goals are the interactive ones (conversation skills, etc).  I'm still praying over how to really teach and practice those and not just react when it goes poorly.  Of course, it will help when classes get underway this week.

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Navy Band

On Thursday we packed a picnic lunch and went to hear a small ensemble from the Navy Band at a free performance in a local shopping area.  I was determined to get pictures this time. 




The kids really enjoyed the music. The band did patriotic songs, so the kids knew some of them. Then afterwards we discovered a splash area, which was extra fun!